This article explores the historical context of Japanese parenting, the role of the extended family in Japan, current trends in Japanese parenting, and factors that influence Japanese parenting decisions. It also examines whether or not Japanese parents actually do leave their children behind. Traditional values such as respect for elders still remain strong influences on modern day parenting practices even though there have been some shifts away from strict obedience towards increased independence and self-expression among younger generations growing up today. Ultimately whether or not Japanese parents choose to leave their kids behind is largely dependent upon individual circumstances however most families try to stay together whenever possible.