This article explores the history and use of LGBTQ pronouns in Japan, including commonly used pronouns such as "boku" and "kare", as well as how to respectfully use them. It also explains the process of changing one's legal name or gender marker on official documents, and how to support the LGBTIQA+ community in Japan by being mindful when using language. The article concludes by emphasizing the importance of understanding how language can empower or disempower those who identify differently than us so we can create more accepting spaces for all people regardless of sexual orientation, identity, expression etc.