This article explores the various terms used to refer to a significant other in Japan, ranging from traditional gendered terms such as kareshi (彼氏) for males and kanojo (彼女) for females, to more modern gender-neutral terms such as tsunagi (つなぎ), which means "connection". It also discusses the implications of gender neutral language on relationships in Japan, as it allows couples to express their feelings without having to conform to traditional gendered roles.